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		<title>For Sacramento Kings&#8217; Fans: The Five Stages of Happiness</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 14:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marilyn Kenyon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I remember a time when many of us were discussing Elisabeth Kübler-Ross&#8217; five stages of grief, when we believed the Sacramento Kings were relocating to Anaheim. The first stage is denial, followed by anger, and then bargaining, followed by depression, and then finally acceptance. Thankfully, we did not have to go through those stages. Following [...]</p><p><a href="http://aroyalpain.com/2013/05/20/for-sacramento-kings-fans-the-five-stages-of-happiness/">For Sacramento Kings&#8217; Fans: The Five Stages of Happiness</a> - <a href="http://aroyalpain.com">A Royal Pain</a> - <a href="http://aroyalpain.com">A Royal Pain - A Sacramento Kings Fan Site - News, Blogs, Opinion and More</a></p>]]></description>
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I remember a time when many of us were discussing Elisabeth Kübler-Ross&#8217; five stages of grief, when we believed the Sacramento Kings were relocating to Anaheim. The first stage is denial, followed by anger, and then bargaining, followed by depression, and then finally acceptance. Thankfully, we did not have to go through those stages.</p>
<p>Following the news the NBA blocked the relocation of the Sacramento Kings to Seattle, I felt an enormous sense of relief rush over me. At the same time, I noticed my Twitter timeline filled with many fans expressing their relief over the news. I observed other feelings and gestures, some expected, others unexpected. From these observations I put together my own list of the stages we were experiencing emotionally.</p>
<p>Here is my list of the <em>Five Stages of Happiness</em>, a volte-face to the five stages of grief:</p>
<p><strong>Stage I: Relief</strong></p>
<p>Most people seemed to express a profound sense of relief after news the NBA owners voted to block relocation of the team. Considering this ordeal has gone on for two years, I guess it shouldn’t come as any surprise. The time, effort and intensity to pull everything together by so many parties is nothing short of phenomenal. So many starts, stops,and turn of events. Just when it seemed everything was going Sacramento’s way, the Seattle group would find a way to upset the applecart. </p>
<p><strong>Stage II: Disbelief</strong></p>
<p>Once I got past sheer relief, then there was a sense of disbelief, &#8220;Wait &#8211; Is this <em>really</em> happening?&#8221; I felt as though I could not exhale until the contract was signed by the team&#8217;s owners. There was this nagging concern it could all vaporize. I heard others voice worry and concern. Could our fear be due to the fact the Maloofs pulled out of the deal last year after celebrating center court with Mayor Kevin Johnson? That would explain it. </p>
<p><strong>Stage III: Forgiveness</strong></p>
<p>The odd thing, after months of back and forth dialogue with Seattle fans hoping to regain a team, some of it dissolving into mud-slinging; after years of verbally bashing the former team’s owners, the Maloofs, all of that seemed to disappear. Suddenly, people are &#8220;making nice&#8221; to the so-called “Sea Trolls” and the Maloof family. It is almost as though none of it ever happened. Strange.</p>
<p><strong>Stage IV: Celebration</strong></p>
<p>Once relief over the sale becomes a <em>fait accompli, </em> we can trust this is actually happening, and having made amends to anyone we may have disparaged in the heat of saving our team, we are free to embrace the team&#8217;s new ownership group headed by Vivek Ranadive and unabashedly celebrate keeping our team in Sacramento. Time to party!</p>
<p><strong>Stage V: Happiness</strong></p>
<p>Merrian-Webster provides one definition of the word happiness, which seems especially apropos:</p>
<blockquote><p>The feeling experienced when one’s wishes are met. </p></blockquote>
<p>Yes, that satisfies. So, for us Sacramento Kings fans, we finally get to experience what it feels like to be happy once again and the promise this will lead to more happiness in the years to come. The end.</p>
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		<title>Sacramento Kings: A New Beginning</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 00:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Marilyn Kenyon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>A palpable collective sigh of relief was felt across Sacramento as news about the sale of the Sacramento Kings to the Sacramento investment group was announced last night by Tony Bizjak, Ryan Lillis, and Dale Kasler in the Sacramento Bee. This followed the announced rejection by the NBA on Wednesday, May 15, for the Sacramento [...]</p><p><a href="http://aroyalpain.com/2013/05/17/sacramento-kings-a-new-beginning/">Sacramento Kings: A New Beginning</a> - <a href="http://aroyalpain.com">A Royal Pain</a> - <a href="http://aroyalpain.com">A Royal Pain - A Sacramento Kings Fan Site - News, Blogs, Opinion and More</a></p>]]></description>
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<p>A palpable collective sigh of relief was felt across Sacramento as news about the sale of the <a href="http://www.sacbee.com/2013/05/16/5427622/kings.html">Sacramento Kings to the Sacramento investment group </a>was announced last night by Tony Bizjak, Ryan Lillis, and Dale Kasler in the Sacramento Bee. This followed the announced rejection by the NBA on Wednesday, May 15, for the Sacramento Kings to relocate to Seattle. </p>
<p>While I cannot speak for all Sacramento Kings fans, for myself, this has been an emotionally draining process, especially this past year. The news, while not totally unexpected, still feels surreal. It was by no small feat that we can share in this historic occasion. For loyal fans of the Kings, this means a new beginning and an end to the torturous dismantling of the team we love. </p>
<p>It is fair to say, basketball news per se took a backseat this season, as the political news about the sale of the team took priority. Somehow, news about the team was empty when the very future of the team was clouded in uncertainty. Overhanging every discussion of a player, game, or possible trade was the omnipresent possibility the team could be gone next year &#8211; Sacramento could lose its team. Without a team there is no basketball, at least in Sacramento.</p>
<p>So, it comes with tremendous relief, pleasure, and joy to know Sacramento keeps its team. We can again speak of basketball; we can again debate the merits of one draft prospect over another; and we can again dream of owning a particular player. With new ownership, we can set the bar higher, dream bigger, with full knowledge of the possibliiies.</p>
<p>Mayor Kevin Johnson is our hero. He pulled himself up from defeat to achieve success through perseverance. He brought together a fantastic investment group to negotiate effectively with the NBA to keep the team here. NBA owners showed their support by overwhelmingly voting to keep the team here. Vivek Ranadivé, head of the Sacramento group saw the value of investing in Sacramento, bringing a vision to transform our team and community. </p>
<p>Yet, who could have imagined ten years ago that it would the fans of the Sacramento Kings who would prove to be pivotal in the future direction of Sacramento? Ten years from now, we can look back and acknowledge that each one of us played a part of this.</p>
<p>As fans we supported one another. The grassroots’ involvement by Crown Downtown, founded by Mike Tavares, tenaciously supported Mayor Johnson’s vision to revitalize downtown, while Here We Stay, founded by Blake Ellington, was the initial grassroots movement, which provided fans the blueprint to organize themselves. Carmichael Dave, now a popular folk hero, used his platform to galvanize fans. Sactown Royalty, founded by Tom Ziller, became an Internet fan community, where dialogue translated into brainstorming of ideas, spilling over into every facet of the efforts to keep the team here.</p>
<p>Local businesses, including Jiffy-Lube, stepped up support to keep the team. Twitter, our highway of communication, notified thousands of fans in seconds. It was a single tweet which set off the flurry of events to save the team. Without the leaking of the projected sale of the team to Seattle investor, Chris Hansen, Sacramento might have been caught flat-footed, without time to navigate. Local news stations, including News 10 California and Fox 40, have not only reported the news but became invested in the story as a part of the fabric of the community. </p>
<p>There are countless people to acknowledge. This truly is a victory for Sacramento. </p>
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